Ashley
Failure Resume: Why You Might Need One
Growing up, I worked really hard to avoid failure. I put tremendous pressure on myself to make all A’s, lead clubs, play on athletic teams, and generally make everyone happy. It was a recipe for disaster that my parents tried...
“Try Again, Please” :: An Alternative to “Cancel Culture”
A couple of years ago I observed a fellow mom say three words that changed my parenting style.
I don’t actually remember the exact exchange between her and her very young daughter, but I remember my...
5 Must-Haves for Camping with Kids
We first camped as a family when our youngest was five months old. We borrowed a tent and I think I slept 10 minutes the entire night. The next morning we packed up and...
Love as a Verb: How to Change a Feeling into Action
When I was a child, I thought love was a noun.
It was abstract and somewhat nebulous. A feeling. It’s what all the characters in my childhood movies sought and found.
I based a lot of...
I Measure Time Differently Now
I love listening to my preschooler talk about time. She often tells me about how she’s going to clean up her room "yesterday tomorrow" and she also asks me if I remember a place...
Parenting Perspective :: Transactional or Transformational?
I heard a groan from my oldest daughter at the kitchen table as she went through the papers from her backpack.
“What’s wrong?” I asked from the kitchen.
“I got a terrible grade on this,” she...
My Kids Can’t Live in a Bubble
All things considered, I distracted my daughters from the unfolding scene fairly well. As I gestured to bins of dollar items, a struggle unfolded at the automatic doors just 30 feet from where we...
Holiday Hack: A Charcuterie Table
My husband and I love hosting people at our house, but making delicious food is not one of our talents. Don’t get me wrong, people usually leave our house full, but they rarely ask...