Everyone has something they regret during their childhood. Whether it was not being nicer to a sibling or not trying out for a certain sport, we all regret something in our past. My regret was not being fully bilingual. I grew up semi-bilingual because my parents would speak to me in Chinese with English blended in. Most of the time I was more comfortable speaking English back to them, and they would only use Chinese when we were trying to be secretive in public or when I was in trouble. My parents tried to get me to go to Chinese school where I could learn to read and write the language, but I resisted. I was embarrassed to use it when we were out or in front of my friends because I didn’t want to seem weird or like I was from another country. But now I’m proud that I have another language and culture that I represent.
Now that my son can babble, I am starting to implement Chinese into his language by pointing to pictures or items around the house and telling him both the Chinese and English word for them. The spoken word isn’t the only way a baby can be bilingual. Sign language is a great way for babies to communicate with their parents in a nonverbal way. Since my son was three months old, we started using sign language. I downloaded a baby sign language app and used it when I wanted him to know an important concept or word. He now is able to tell me he’s hungry, thirsty or wants more of something. I am glad I started using sign language at an early age because he can tell me what he needs quickly and not get frustrated because he doesn’t know the words.
Interested in introducing a new language to your little ones? Don’t be intimidated as an adult to learn a new language; it’s never too late! It will give you a new challenge in life and can be a fun activity for the entire family to accomplish together.
Here are a few tips to learn a new language in a fun and engaging way.
- Borrow or buy books in another language; this can be a fun way to read and learn a new language.
- Attend language classes at your local community college. It’s a great way to continue your education as an adult.
- Find TV shows or movies that promote another language and watch with your kids. Make learning a different language fun and a reward for the entire family.
- Visit restaurants or supermarkets that display words in another language. This is a great way for kids to see familiar pictures with words from another language.
Communication is key in every culture and knowing multiple languages can only enhance a child’s ability to succeed in life. Challenge your family to tackle a new language and hopefully you will see your children’s lives flourish with a new language.
